Ignore the uncontrollable, choose helpful interpretations, and love your fate. — 1. Ignore the Uncontrollable If you focus too much on things you can’t control, you’ll feel helpless, anxious, and stressed. So, get into the habit of separating what is outside and inside of your control, and then act accordingly: If it’s outside control — let it go. Tell yourself, “I don’t care,” until you’ve…